Some men don’t understand, a woman needs to feel secure in other ways in order for her not to feel like she has to control everything because her man doesn’t care. Further if he can’t even protect then what do you have. You both provide equally and still have to take care of the children on your own while he runs around with his friends and does absolutely nothing at home unless you’re yelling.
How does it come to this, the pain and regrets and looking back you start to think about your career choices and the things you missed out on because of pregnacy and you realize men. Their lack to provide or worse protect has contributed to the pain and mental abuse a woman has to go thru. As a black woman, you try to reason and they dont listen and then when you’re fed up and it turns into a arguement, he starts saying you’re bitter and negative.
If he won’t protect your heart, nerves, energy, or even phyically. Let him go. He don’t love you he love what he does…himself.
Author & Poetically Speaking with Art 